i dont know if anyone has ever had this happen to them, but when you like someone and then they end up liking you friend, its like so cheap, just wanna know if anyone is in with me for having that happen to them/

Oh yeah, its happened to me too. Sucks hard. I liked a girl that liked me and my friend B. And a friend C came along and tried etting this girl with Friend B and after a week of drama Friend C asks her out and left me and friend B in the dust.

ya, man. thats happened happened to me. It blows. If your experiencing that now, good luck.

Happens to me all the time...everyone is obsessed with my friend Luna, they think she's SO beautiful-I think it's because she has big boobs. This one guy I was starting to go somewhere with...Luna came to visit and he only saw her for about twenty minutes, after she left, all he kept doing was asking me about her. That was a few years ago, if I run into him, he only asks about her.
Not to mention all my Middle Eastern friends want to hang out with her because "She doesn't listen to rock music and she likes to smile a lot more than you. She's a real Middle Eastern."
Did I mention if you're NOT wearing Gucci from head to toe she thinks you're trash?

shit man that has happend to me before. sucks balls. Now I'm dating the prettiest girl in my school =], but yeah that happend to me like 2 years ago and it hit me hard. You'll get through it man, go listen to "fuck you" or something and rock out!

yeah ive done that to a couple of guys before (HAHAHAHAHAHAHA) i went on like a date thing with him but he invited his friends so i guess it wasnt really a proper date. anyway he showed no interest in me whatsoever. we ended up at his place drinking, me him and his friend and he said i could stay the night. offered me a spot in his bed and he went all cold on me (like a girl really lol) god i was 18! all i wanted to do was kiss him!. anyway seeing as his frind did all the talking that night (he sorta had to) i developed a crush on him instead. but he either didnt like me that much or thought hed offend his friend..so it never went anywhere.. even tho the one i was supposed to date originally was socially retared and if he DID like me had no clue how to convey it. guys...they think theyve ot it all figured out lol

Ruby link=topic=1997.msg32975#msg32975 date=1188019633]
yeah ive done that to a couple of guys before (HAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

Thats not funny, Oh, and BTW we do have it all figured out.

PistolPete link=topic=1997.msg32983#msg32983 date=1188027079]
Ruby link=topic=1997.msg32975#msg32975 date=1188019633]
yeah ive done that to a couple of guys before (HAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

Thats not funny, Oh, and BTW we do have it all figured out.


gosh settle pettle it was supposed to be ironic. ad it wasnt that bad really. i mean read the fucking post! lol

anyway in my experience men do far worse things to women. i dont know many chicks who have raped their boyfriends

Ruby link=topic=1997.msg32990#msg32990 date=1188031184]i dont know many chicks who have raped their boyfriends


Do you know any? Because that would be an interesting story 0_o

Oh, and this has happened to me. It didn't affect me very much though. I still hang out with the friend that the girl ended up liking more. I have those retard social skills as well, IoI

you guys are cool. haha

*date rape is bad*

and i liked your post ruby, now i can chalk it up to my retarded social skills, lol

but yeah, its all cool once you think of it that way, just chalk it up to whatever, and at least this didnt happen with gfs

Ruby link=topic=1997.msg32990#msg32990 date=1188031184]

anyway in my experience men do far worse things to women. i dont know many chicks who have raped their boyfriends

my wallet begs to differ =[. lfriends
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my wallet begs to differ =[. lol.

Its not that bad but i had to say it.

wallet eh?? hmmm...raped or raughted?? i guess that just makes you the sucker then.
i love paying for shit for my boyfriend. he hates it most of the time (but secretly i think he really likes it, not cos hes saving money but cos i want to take him out like hes been taking women out all his life) but i take him out and spoil him as he does for me, dinner etc, even flowers and petite miams when hes sick. and whenever he objects i just make a scene so he shuts the fuck up. i do this as he does sooooo much for me. so if u have wallet issues your def dating the wrong sort. dont get me wrong its great to want to take a girl out and pay for everything and sometimes thats how it is for us but theres gotta be some flexibility

If i have learnt anything in life its this: relationships are fucked, right from the start, its eventualy going to blow up and leave everyone feeling like shit.

ive been in some really fucked relationships and by all rights i should hate men full stop. but im 22 and realise that i have alot more to experience and learn from, cos im still young! and if your still in your teens and your taking that attitude your pretty naive, but i guess thats what being young is all about. good relationships do exist, its just a matter of finding someone for that compatability and its a matter of longevity. and u get longevity with communication, patience needs being met..emotionally sexually whatever, and empathy and trust. i tell my bf everything, even if he doesnt like it and we have a fights all the time because ive told him something he didnt want to know but i had it say I am laughing out loud.... people arnt perfect.
but overall its nice to be with someone. i think so anyway. even when im miserabe cos im fighting with my boyfriend and im so mad i cant see straight!! i still wouldnt want to be anywhere else cos the good outweighs the bad, by sooooo much..scary but i think thats what u call love.

Cheers, Ruby, and don't get dismayed, Dougy! Not all relationships, even the ones that end, are bad. I'm still friends with a few ex-blokes of mine. You forgive and forget and instead remember why you became involved in the first place - the companionship. True, relationships that are built on strictly sexual or emotional-neediness issues are doomed to fail but you mustn't lose hope.

"All things must surely have to end and even great loves will one day have to part." Just relish them for the time they do last!

What is this??? The Gone with the wind thread??? Ruby, Trillian, Love u girls but Billy was saying the same thing Dougy said...HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA.

I know society is fucked when even women dont believe a relationship can last. "Just enjoy it while its there" - Like the ice cream before it melts. LMAO

Sorry just wanted to throw 2 cents in - this post has no moral.

Oh I did want to say this to Yteah -

We all go through situations like this and it sucks but Snoop Dogg puts it this way:

"It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none."