•Do you grow it?
Yes
•What does it look like, or how do you want it to look?
Currently a tuft under my bottom lip

Had a goate previously but after putting a bit of weight on over the years and having a rounder face the new style is better on me
•Does your lady like it?
Yes...she didnt like it when I shaved it off!
•What do other people think of it?
Ive never asked and I dont care...LOL
If you cant grow it proper though and it looks too wishy washy dont bother.
BTW I have to shave (the rest of my beard) everyday unless I want to look like Gandalf...

Have done since I was about 16!