I know this is a strange place to be asking this sort of thing.


but theres is this girl at school that i like, and i want to tell her that. But im kind of new to this relationship thing.

Does anybody have any advice on what i should do?

Thank you......................................

do like me and develope an almost stalker-like relationship. And then curse yourself for being such a pansy because you can't tell chicks how you feel!

oh wait. you WANT to get with this girl...

Best thing i can think of is get some dialogue going before you bust out the "omg i <3 you." thing.

lol, just write her a note, if your not confident enough, although its very elementary it works fine

ONLY write her a note if shes a reeeeeaaalllly nice and understanding girl. my best friend wrote this guy a letter saying she liked him and told him how great of a guitarist he was and he showed everyone!
she was so sad- some girls are like this as well- so only write her the note if shes nice.
you could just start talking to her casually every now and then, so you two become friends.... then you could ask her out.

You'll probably be rearing yourself up for a lot of emotional pain. So my advice: keep those Smashing Pumpkins CDs at hand!

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You'll probably be rearing yourself up for a lot of emotional pain. So my advice: keep those Smashing Pumpkins CDs at hand!

lmao, thats the best thing ive ever heared
and listen to crush too

If you're feeling angry at any point, listen to Fuck You.

1. Develop Friendship
2. Ask Her Out

The best relationships are based in friendship

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1. Develop Friendship
2. Ask Her Out

The best relationships are based in friendship

exactly- but just dont become too close friendshipwise cause you will end up not wanting to ruin the relationship by going out.

i have a question myself: my girlfriend broke up with me a while ago, and i kinda got over her a bit, so then she says she wants to get back together!!?!? what should i do! i still kinda like her and she is nice and good looking.....please help

oh and to answer your question, suck up to her for a bit, then listen to her when she is talking about stupid stuff, then ask her out when you become really close! thats kinda what i did, except she didnt really talk too much about stupid stuff

Is it normal, even when you're in a long term relationship, to have feelings of attraction to other people besides your partner, even their friends.

I know these relationships would never work, they'd be too based on just lust, and the one I'm in now is based on love and lust and is forever, I know it's not worth risking a great relationship just to try something else, another flavour if you would, but I still find myself attracted to others sometimes...

...Is it normal?

i guess so, and i said no to the girl, i cant be like a rebound for her

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1. Develop Friendship
2. Ask Her Out

The best relationships are based in friendship

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ONLY write her a note if shes a reeeeeaaalllly nice and understanding girl. my best friend wrote this guy a letter saying she liked him and told him how great of a guitarist he was and he showed everyone!
she was so sad- some girls are like this as well- so only write her the note if shes nice.
you could just start talking to her casually every now and then, so you two become friends.... then you could ask her out.


thank you!

great advice

Good Luck!!!!!

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thank you!

great advice

and she is "reeeeeaaalllly nice and understanding"

im not really good friends with her............. yet!

but thank you!


No problem, buddy.

you got this.

YOU GOT THIS!!

haha, a really awekward thing happened to me the other day

me on of my good friends found out we liked the same person, we've been cool about it

but any body have anythin advicable to say?

thats funny, you should ask them out, both of you, like maybe both give them damn notes, so they know both of you like them, instead of it just being, first to ask sort of thing, or something hanging over ones head