No good girl?I thought that my first was a fantastic girl.
Anyway sex,music,sex,sport,sex,art,sex,work,sex,beer frenzy,sex,sleep and oh! tv and sex
If i'm being honest ,thats the average boys thought pattern

Then he gets married and takes up D.I.Y.

yup...you're right on that davko
and for the D.I.Y. method, there is always a reason why...
maybe it's because us women want more mind stimulation rather than, sports, beer,tv,work,hanging out with buddies,sex,beer frenzy, and not to mention grown men wrestling on the floor WTF...
there's so much more to life than just those things listed, and I know I get bored beyond belief with someone like that....what part of those things listed are a turn on for women? not much...while being young it's ok, but when you get older, it's just boring to have such predictability from your significant other!
So ya'll get stuck with the D.I.Y. method...sorry boys

Men are like sheep, they need to be led and taught how to please us. If they could all just learn to slow down a bit and bring in more foreplay, we would all be happier. Us women need emotional intimacy before we can really enjoy ourselves. Just give your lady a little more attention and don't just go straight into it, then you won't have to D.I.Y!

chrislvsp wrote:
Men are like sheep, they need to be led and taught how to please us. If they could all just learn to slow down a bit and bring in more foreplay, we would all be happier. Us women need emotional intimacy before we can really enjoy ourselves. Just give your lady a little more attention and don't just go straight into it, then you won't have to D.I.Y!

haha, thanks for the advice.... i'll definitely consider this...

DON... yeah... she just sounds like a no-good girl if she doesn't realise you're not ready. But you do need to let her know.

chrislvsp wrote:
Just give your lady a little more attention and don't just go straight into it, then you won't have to D.I.Y!

Don't forget to brush your teeth and sort out the recycling.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGOohBytKTU



I give my lady lots of intimate attention and she returns. It's nice.

chrislvsp wrote:
Men are like sheep, they need to be led and taught how to please us. Just give your lady a little more attention and don't just go straight into it, then you won't have to D.I.Y!

lol
easier said than done for most men...

chrislvsp wrote:
Men are like sheep, they need to be led and taught how to please us. If they could all just learn to slow down a bit and bring in more foreplay, we would all be happier.

Erm, with me it was a 90 minutes+ foreplay, so don't blame me for being too fast...
Anyway, it's like Perry Farrell told in some of his songs "Sex Is Violent"...I don't know why, but it's not the Sex itsself, but the whole bunch of feelings and irritations afterwards that makes you feel the violence of it.
Maybe I behave like a woman I dunno, but...hey...I used to be the virgin and she already had her experiences...
And I used to ask her, if she was ready and she told me, that she just wants to know if I was ready...than I asked her, if it wouldn't be a lil' bit too early and she just smiled and told me, that I really don't know her at all...seems a bit bitchy in the end, but she's still in love with me and we're visitng each others nearby every day...
BTW: she didn't (and still doesn't) know, that I had sex with her for the very 1st time, so it wasn't some kind of abusement...

And tonite she's goin' to visit me to "watch movies" and I haven't talked to her at all...but how to start with it???

She didn't know it was your first time? I don't know her, but maybe she would have tried to make it more special had she known, you just need to let her know how it made your feel. If she loves you, she will understand, and your relationship will be the better for it.

...and her's the end of the story:
We talked about our relationship for a long, long time and told us everything we supposed to be important for our relationship.
Now I know, it's a serious thing and our love has grown so much in the last few days (I've spent the whole weekend with her...) that I can tell we'll stay together.
For me and her, it feels like true love...maybe the starting was a bit fast for me, but in the end, it seems to have been the right way...I really love her!!! (and having sex with a person you adore is something special which feels right...)

I lost my innocence to a no good ass!
I was 18, he was 17. I had a huge crush on him, and after he blabbled about it to everyone, including my family members!
what an ass!

I thought you meant you lost your virginity when you had anal sex. But some people think that doesn't count.

NO! That is not what I meant at all! I just meant he was a jerk!

Haha, I'm a guy too.

I just think James' cute.

Nah, virginity should be lost to someone you think is special and you're in a deep relationship with.

I'll keep it for a while.