so basically, last weekend i ended up cuddling and kissing with my good friend, i dont know how it happened, we had a massive pillow fight with her cousins/my other friends, then we were watching the simpsons movie like that, lol

we talked about it the next day, cause that was insanely weird, we both agreed it was nice and no regrets

then a week of hanging out and calling eachother about 100% more than usual, since i dont call em unless its the weekend, but i didnt want anything to be weird, talking about nothing really

then she gets her older brother to convince me to come drink with them, and when we were all going to bed, he warns me not to crawl in her bed, which i do anyways, and we go a little farther this time, but she is gone before i wake up and we havnt talked about it since, its been two days and i asked her to come over, she just said "you wish boi"

all through this shes inconspicuously showing me pictures and telling me more about her


idk what i expect, but its in my head and would be interesting to hear what you guys have to say about it

psssfff!!! i wish i had friends like that!

you should jsut say something like jd said wen he broke up with elliot (from scrubs) like say t here was so much sexual tension building up over the years and it had to be released

im joking dont say that, sorry i cant be of any help, ive never been in that situation....maybe just give her a few days

psssfff!!! i wish i had friends like that!

lol i wish you did too!





the funny this is, after her brother warned me, he took a bat from the closet to his room

For your sake, forget it and get on with your life, immediatly. Never even think back to it.

Seriously, do yourself this fucking favor. Anything else is stupid and desperate.

i just hope your freindship isn't wrecked, i had a situation with a coworker/freind and we don't talk at all we still work at the same location which makes it even more shitty

yeah...

i think im fucking it up, im missing her already

yteah wrote:
yeah...

i think im fucking it up, im missing her already
Growing up I always loved females, caught all the cooties I could, etc. and, of course, looked up to suave guys that could get romance out of any situation, or most. You know these people in life, you know them from film and television, and it warps your mind into thinking that matters of the heart, mind, body have some type of significance so we chase them blindly. For a time now I haven't had a single problem getting a woman, but it's only because I learned the truth, and I'm fucking telling you: Your feelings, the thrill of the chase, the butterflies mean absolutely nothing. With every situation you'll ever find yourself in I promise you that they are all the same- completely and utterly pointless. It's only in having a recurring or enduring type of relationship that anything means something, that feelings matter or the relationship is somehow important and poignant.

Your friendship with her has significance and purpose and use and beauty. These feelings you're having because you rubbed necks like fucking cats is pointless, and unless you think you're going to marry this chick you need to back off and save face.

yeah, lol, i love your "cats" reference

and thanks for the help, i have to think of EVERYTHING

but theres somethings you can find out before hand

In other words, stop thinking with your dick.

Flings are fun, but DON't take them seriously.

your face!

im not thinking with my dick, im thinking that ive always liked her in that ungetable way, but im not going for it, i can forget the girl that got away, its not like im 30 just yet, lol

well, the situation i had closest to this was there was this girl that i thought was cute, and i wanted to get with her, so i became her friend, and we got closer and closer, till we did, but then things just got awkward for a while, and we stopped talking for a while, stopped seeing eachother, until now (this was about a year ago) and now we are good friends, and i dont learn, but i am thinking of her again.......and i think she really likes me..... i dont want to ruin this again,

the difference between my story and ur story is that u were actually friends with her before you wanted to be with her...so..i guess im a dick 4 getting to be friends with her just so i could hook up with her.....

just give it time, and then dont fuck up again, like im probably gonna do

Teej, that is EXACTLY the same story of my last gf.

Except over a much shorter period of time.

its been a long time since it started

what i dont get is she broke up with me, but now she wants to get back together, but im not complaining, just thinking

that sounds whack, did she touch your penis?

i asked her brother how he knew about us, and he was like "oh, pff, she told everyone, we were talking about you all week around here" i was like and told her what he said, she just smiled and turned away.

yteah wrote:
that sounds great, did she whack your penis?